Gaye Holud is not an essential part of a wedding. It is just a cultural part of the wedding. The cultural formalities of the wedding varies from one country to another even though the religion of these countries is same. Spending too much money in Gaye Holud is of no use. Arranging something for the poor people can be a good option, it glorifies a wedding ceremony.
Dowry in the form of gift is not a good idea. It is not just an illegal, dowry is something that lets the husband down. The furniture and other appliance can be earned but accepting is disrespectful for a man.
